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Life's Detours

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Once upon a time, there was me - with a little dreamer’s heart wrote and imagined a life I wanted. I planned out everything, because they said when you planned out things it is mostly gonna work out just fine. In contrast, if you have no plan, you plan to fail. I might have a lot of dreams and plans stuck in my head when I was growing up, I don’t think I know how to put them all in action. Execution of things I have in my mind is what I am terrible at. I have written several bucket lists, I am not even close in completing any of them and I am not certain to achieve any of them. I’ll start off with simple ones. I graduated with a Bachelor's Degree and everyone was expecting for me to work on the job I have studied for, I also expected for that to happen. Turns out, I had a different path to take. I worked in a job where there is no need for a Bachelor's Degree and went all the way to a position in the same company where college degree matters, but I am still not on the path

You don't deserve to be someone's secret

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You are loved by so many people around you. You are valued by those people who care for you. You are worth dying for because 2,000 years ago Someone died for you. You are wonderfully made and worth every compliment you could have. You are a unique creature in every way. No one is like you. You are worth showing off. You are worth being proud of and present to everyone that you are their partner. Let the person you value see your worth and expose your worth to the world they have. When you get into a relationship, you are to take the risk to change your life 360 degrees. The people will see you differently based on the relationship status you have and you should act according to it. If the person is so into you and loves you dearly, he would want to be at the rooftop and talk about how precious you are into his life. True love is not silent, it will always pump what’s inside. Love will be evident on your partner’s actions and words whenever he is with his family and friends.  You

If God allows, this is what I want 

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I have been contemplating these past few days. When I was younger I did not have a set of standards for my ideal man. If I fall, I'll fall. However, as I matured my perspective changed. I would always ask myself, "what type of a person do I really want to spend the rest of my life with?", ``What kind of a father I want for my future kids?" and "What nature of family would I like to have in the future?". Pondering on these questions I used to have, I came up with the set of standards I want to have in a man that I'd like to live with for the rest of my life. If God allows, this is what I want. First and foremost, I'd like my man to be godly. When I say Godly, it is not just a church-goer, but he himself is the church. I would like him to live according to God’s word. I am not looking for boyfriend material, but I long for husband material who would be our Spiritual Leader at home with our kids. I am looking for a ministry partner who would joyfull