You don't deserve to be someone's secret

You are loved by so many people around you. You are valued by those people who care for you. You are worth dying for because 2,000 years ago Someone died for you. You are wonderfully made and worth every compliment you could have. You are a unique creature in every way. No one is like you. You are worth showing off. You are worth being proud of and present to everyone that you are their partner. Let the person you value see your worth and expose your worth to the world they have. When you get into a relationship, you are to take the risk to change your life 360 degrees. The people will see you differently based on the relationship status you have and you should act according to it. If the person is so into you and loves you dearly, he would want to be at the rooftop and talk about how precious you are into his life. True love is not silent, it will always pump what’s inside. Love will be evident on your partner’s actions and words whenever he is with his family and friends. 

You don’t deserve to be someone’s secret partner. Let your partner be proud of having you. If there is something that hinders them in presenting you to their family and close friends, then what’s the point of being in a relationship with you? If their past is holding them back, give them time to heal from it or else you will be put in the darkness you never wanted to be. You will always get confused about your status if you are in a secret relationship or just in private. You are worth conquering someone’s fear. In love there is no fear, my dearest! You are worth being talked about if you are the reason for their joy. You don’t have to tolerate their fear towards their past, you can help and support them. Being in a secret state is different from being private. When someone asks your status, your partner should be able to tell the real score and that’s privacy which other people should respect. Being someone’s secret is not giving your partner dignity, honor and respect at all. 

Next time you put yourself into a relationship, please don’t be someone’s secret. Ask your partner for clarity. Confusion brings fear and fear proceeds to wrong decisions. You deserve more than that! You are a wonderful creature and when the person really loves you and is sure about you, being his secret is not an option. He won’t be able to stop himself letting the world know of his joy. 
No one deserves to be kept in the dark. Know your worth!